Baby Showers – Dos and Don’ts

• Do plan ahead. Send your invitations at least three weeks before the shower date.
• Do get organized before the shower so the party will run smoothly. Then you'll have time to actually enjoy the shower.
• Do consider including men.
• Don’t be surprised by an early arrival. Get dressed at least thirty minutes to an hour before you expect guests to arrive.
• Do have fun with decorations. Consider using decorations or centerpieces that incorporate baby-related items that can be given to the mom-to-be at the end of the party.
• Do include a bunch of balloons outside your door to greet guests.
• Do set aside a space like a table for guests to place gifts when they arrive.
• Do use your best linens and silver if you're planning a formal party.
• Do present foods attractively. Include garnishes.
• Do know your guests' dietary restrictions when planning the menu, especially those of the mom-to-be. If you plan to serve alcoholic beverages, label them clearly.
• Do serve foods that are easy to eat.
• Don't expect guests to balance a sit-down meal on their laps.
• Do seat one or two detail-minded persons near the mom-to-be to handle opened presents, discarded gift-wrapping, and to record the gifts.
• Don't give all newborn or three-month-size clothing. The baby will soon wear larger sizes.
• Do remember both expectant parents when buying gifts. Personal gifts can give them a real lift during this stressful time.
• Do consider using the nursery colors in your decorations.
• Do keep the shower short and sweet (usually two to three hours maximum). Strive for quality over quantity.
• Do plan activities that guests will enjoy.
• Don't play games that are embarrassing or awkward.
• Do select useful prizes for guests.
• Finally, do have a good time!

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